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The Importance of Emotional Safety in Building Strong Relationships
Feeling safe, both physically and emotionally, is crucial for a fulfilling relationship, as it allows for trust, vulnerability, and...
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Somatic Sexologist
* Gender Exploration
* Pleasure and Intimacy
* Trauma Healing
* Addressing Challenges
* Embodied Consent
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Exploring the Erotic Blueprints™
In today's world, understanding intimate connections is more important than ever. While many people view sexual experiences as merely...
6 days ago3 min read
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How my 20-year career in theology led me to become a somatic sexologist...
In the evangelical world, your identity is assigned at birth. You're molded by fear rather than freedom, and leaving this community means...
Mar 291 min read
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Unveiling the Mystery: Exploring Erotic Blueprints in Real-Life Encounters
The exploration of human sexuality is vast and deeply personal. Among the various ways to understand our erotic lives, the concept of...
Feb 284 min read
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How Can We Manage the Fight-or-Flight Response During Imminent Threats?
We’ve all been in a space of imminent threat at some point in our lives. When faced with an “imminent threat,” our nervous systems...
Feb 201 min read
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When did you learn to abandon yourself?
Our society teaches us to adhere to its rules, many of which are rooted in religion, family dynamics, and cultural expectations.
Jan 141 min read
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Authentic Expression: Female to Male.
I started the medical transition process 2 years ago today! There comes a point where the internal pain is greater than the pain from the...
Jan 131 min read
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Post-Traumatic Growth through Somatic Sexology
We instinctively avoid our experiences (thoughts, feelings, emotions, sensations, and memories) because we fear all the emotions tied to...
Jan 131 min read
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Somatic Sexology: This is Sacred Work!
AS A SOMATIC SEXOLOGIST, I AM PROFESSIONALLY RESOURCED TO HELP MY CLIENTS EXPLORE THEIR GENDER, IDENTITY, EXPRESSION, AND ORIENTATION.
Dec 28, 20241 min read
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This is sacred work: I’m on a mission to help individuals authentically express themselves!
As a Somatic Sexologist, I am professionally resourced to help my clients explore their gender, identity, expression, and orientation....
Dec 22, 20242 min read
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How My Personal Struggle Led to the Start of My Business: A Reflection
I spent 38 years repressing who I was, because I believed I was wrong, bad, broken, and sinful. This mentality nearly killed me. I lost...
Dec 21, 20241 min read
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Dissociation and Nervous System Regulation
Dissociation can be a temporary coping mechanism that's vital to survival.
Dec 3, 20241 min read
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We all long to: love and be loved.
The brilliance of this work is found in its capacity to reconnect us to our authentic selves. Because at some point in our journey, we...
Nov 24, 20241 min read
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Loneliness in Loss
So much of the struggle we all face is simply loneliness in loss. If someone can feel the presence of you & your love Without the...
Oct 29, 20241 min read
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Do what’s right for you…
Do what's right for you!
Oct 29, 20241 min read
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"Exploring Somatic Embodiment: Unraveling the Mysteries of the Mind-Body Connection
Let's explore the depths of somatic embodiment and unlock the secrets of the mind-body connection. Embrace the transformative power of...
Oct 17, 20243 min read
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How Do You Give Yourself Permission to Play?
When I first started my healing journey, I had a hard time letting go of all of the conditioning. I had internal longings: Desires that I...
Oct 17, 20241 min read
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When you are true to yourself, your energy shifts.
I remember the day I said “I can’t live like this anymore.” I was living an incongruent lifestyle & I was so over it. The reality is, we...
Oct 15, 20241 min read
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How a Helping Hand and the Power of Love Can Change Everything
There’s a time I thought my life was over. Maybe you have been in this space as well. It’s dark. It’s lonely. It can feel utterly...
Oct 14, 20241 min read
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